I know I am a neurotic. So this question–“Is it me or is it you?” is real. I read so much into every interaction I have with another person. I also over-analyze my response to (or interpretations of) others’ actions/reactions. I beat myself up about everything, even when I know that I did nothing wrong/out of the ordinary (not necessarily synonymous). I might muse on my reactions to my experiences, my adulti-ish children, my spouse, my family, society, my community, my pets, my job and coworkers, myself, nature, my expectations, nature, etc.